Manipulation is a No No

When getting involved with Wicca, consider your responsibility. The Wiccan Rede (rule) is "An it harm none, do as thou wilt" - in other words, do your own thing as long as you don´t hurt anyone, including yourself. When you cast that love spell, it´s to open YOURSELF to love, not to manipulate others into loving you ... that´s harming another, even though your personal desire makes it look like it´s for another´s good to be involved with you. Likewise, money spells are to increase your cashflow, but not to wish rich Aunt Sadie dead to leave all her money to you.

Get the idea? Work on SELF improvement and the rest will follow.